Dear Kaba, I don’t see a problem here! It’s not like the guy is 20-30 years older than you! What’s one year between friends?? Being about the same age will mean you won’t necessarily have problems that those with a wide generational gap will have....
Dear B, Yours is certainly a peculiar problem! The usual thing is to hear a woman complain that her husband is not having sex enough with her with questions like” does He love me?” “is he seeing another woman?” Such thoughts would run through her...
Dear Vee, The saying -“one man s meat is another man s poison readily comes to mind. Most women complain that after Sex, the man just switches off and starts to snore! Here you have a husband who cuddles you after sex showing how much...
Hi Cheater, How would you feel if your fiancée was cheating on you eh? You know what yo do – STOP cheating or you will be jeopardizing the success of a marriage you hope will be forever. Zip up and stop cheating! It’s as simple...
Dear Ekong, This is a tough one! I see that you really love her and are heartbroken over her cheating on you with her ex. I suggest you sit down and have another heart to heart talk with her and tell her if she cheats...
Dear AE, I think you should take it slowly and take one day at a time. Take time to know your new boyfriend by relating first with him as a friend; doing things together and enjoying shared interests. Don’t be a pessimist by always expecting...
Dear FM, Long distance relationships at best are very difficult to maintain. Unless you can visit him and he can visit you as well, I’ll suggest you let it go and and give yourself time to find your true love! Good luck with that. Aunty...
Dear OJ, Yours is a truly sad case- that you love a girl and are willing to marry her but she wants to leave because of (I guess from your letter, the economic situation and all!) They say behind every dark cloud, there is a...
Dear Mila, I wish you had given me more details as to what you did to upset him so! Give him time to cool down and hard as it may be, try to give him some space and don’t call him for a while. Calling...
Dear An, Do you suppose your language may be part of your problem? You used the word “s..t” many times in your letter (not very ladylike!) By your own admission you are impatient, saucy, don’t like doing chores and care about being in love and...
