Hoping you can offer any advice to save me from this big problem with my sex life even in marriage which I don’t want to ruin my marital life.
I am married with a kid and my marriage is 3years old. I actually like everything about my husband and what he does.
However, my present predicament is that I just found myself dating a colleague in the office because my husband does not satisfy my sexual desires.
We don’t have the same desire for sex. After a couple of good times, he feels it is just okay and he expects us to gist and just cuddle each other while I am longing for more.
I have tried to persuade him to go some more but it does not go down well with him and I don’t also want to create an impression of myself being excessive with sex to him.
Unfortunately, I can’t explain what is happening to me because I wasn’t like this at the initial stage of our marriage, not even during our courtship that lasted over two years. We had moderate desires then.
And in actual sense, I don’t feel good each time I see this other guy and I don’t know how to communicate it to my husband to be able to meet my desires.
Please help me. I want to stop this illicit affair.
I love my man.